What if we thought of monogamy as a spectrum? "The study revealed two important findings. First, millennials like myself are less interested in monogamy than our elders are. Second, millennials don’t view monogamy as all or nothing. We realize that, like sexuality and gender, relationships can exist on a spectrum. And [...]
Looking for a Third? These Guys Are Down Read an article where I am interviewed about why straight men enjoy three-ways. ...straight men do want to have threesomes and explore their sexual boundaries. But the fact is the experiences, like the apps that enable them, can be glitchy." https://features.wearemel.com/looking-for-a-third-these-guys-are-down-10f1076fcd4#.t3rbsdcah [...]
Can Porn Enhance a Couple’s Sex Life? Dr Joe Kort offers therapy to couples and notes that many women remain wary of porn, especially if they have caught their male partner watching it in secret. They will often equate this discovery with real-life infidelity. However, “porn can absolutely be a [...]
An Educational Post Concerning the Importance of Understanding the Severity of the Restroom Issues Transgender People Face People are born transgender. It happens while developing in utero. Every fetus starts out as “female” while developing during the 1st trimester of pregnancy. Approximately at the end of the 1st trimester/beginning of [...]
Depathologizing Sexual Eroticism Understanding why men's and women's erotic identities are so different It’s a story I’ve heard many times in my practice. A marriage is going along just fine until the day a wife discovers that her husband has been watching Internet porn, porn that bears little resemblance to [...]
Relationship Counseling – 3 Tips to Improve Your Relationship (When You are the Only One in Counseling) What if you want to improve your relationship, but your partner will not come along? Can you still improve your relationship better without the help of your partner coming to therapy [...]
Porn Addiction – 3 Main Physiological Problems That Arise It’s impossible to understand pornography’s impact on relationships without considering the role of the Internet. Years ago, it was a time-consuming —often expensive—chore to find new and titillating erotica. But in the last couple of decades, the range of explicit material [...]
Top 4 Myths about Bisexual Identity Bisexuality is a real sexual identity—it is not just a stage. Sexual interests, sexual behavior, and sexual identity are different and are not always aligned in an individual. Sexual interests, sexual behavior, and sexual identity are different and are not always aligned [...]
Cycles of Sex Addiction Those who suffer from a sex addiction typically experience what is called an addictive cycle, which includes four elements: preoccupation, ritual, sexual behavior, and despair. Cycle of Sex Addiction #1: Preoccupation During the preoccupation stage, a sex addict thinks ahead, making sure that he’ll have enough time [...]
Sex Addiction Counseling: The Top 3 Myths People not familiar with sex addiction often joke about it, probably because it makes them nervous and uncomfortable. Sex Addiction Counseling Myth #1: Sex Addiction is About Sex People not familiar with sex addiction often joke about it, probably because it [...]
